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婚后要同妻子及妈妈3人同床睡

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((资)(料)(图)(片)()  核)(心)(提)(示)(  今)(年)(30岁)(出)(头)(的)(菲)(菲)((化)(名)()已)(是)(一)(个)(一)(岁)(孩)(子)(的)(妈)(妈)(,无)(论)(是)(作)(为)(母)(亲)(对)(孩)(子)(的)(眷)(恋)(,还)(是)(孩)(子)(对)(母)(亲)(的)(依)(恋)(,她)(都)(有)(了)(深)(刻)(的)(体)(会)(。可)(是)(,她)(却)(仍)(然)(无)(法)(理)(解)(丈)(夫)(与)(家)(婆)(之)(间)(的)(行)(为)(——  丈)(夫)(小)(明)((化)(名)()作)(为)(家)(中)(独)(生)(子)(,从)(小)(到)(结)(婚)(都)(一)(直)(受)(到)(了)(父)(母)(的)(宠)(爱)(,但)(组)(建)(自)(己)(的)(家)(庭)(后)(,丈)(夫)(仍)(无)(法)(摆)(脱)(对)(母)(亲)(的)(依)(赖)(和)(依)(恋)(,常)(常)(找)(借)(口)(回)(父)(母)(家)(过)(夜)(。甚)(至)(在)(两)(人)(的)(孩)(子)(出)(生)(后)(,丈)(夫)(还)(经)(常)(以)(孝)(顺)(父)(母)(为)(由)(回)(父)(母)(家)(住)(,留)(菲)(菲)(在)(家)(独)(自)(照)(顾)(孩)(子)(。30多)(岁)(的)(丈)(夫)(回)(家)(仍)(与)(母)(亲)(同)(床)(睡)(觉)(,让)(菲)(菲)(震)(惊)(了)(,她)(向)(丈)(夫)(和)(婆)(婆)(提)(出)(了)(抗)(议)(,可)(他)(们)(却)(不)(以)(为)(然)(。菲)(菲)(觉)(得)(丈)(夫)(像)(是)(没)(有)(断)(奶)(的)(孩)(子)(,她)(简)(直)(无)(法)(忍)(受)(,但)(孩)(子)(还)(小)(她)(又)(不)(敢)(提)(离)(婚)(。  相)(亲)(恋)(爱)(  男)(友)(顾)(家)(的)(优)(点)(赢)(得)(芳)(心)(  菲)(菲)(和)(丈)(夫)(小)(明)(都)(是)(南)(宁)(人)(。菲)(菲)(性)(格)(温)(和)(,工)(作)(后)(因)(为)(社)(交)(圈)(子)(窄)(,临)(近)(30岁)(时)(她)(才)(开)(始)(着)(急)(张)(罗)(自)(己)(的)(婚)(嫁)(,父)(母)(也)(开)(始)(给)(她)(物)(色)(相)(亲)(对)(象)(,菲)(菲)(与)(丈)(夫)(小)(明)(相)(亲)(,就)(是)(父)(母)(一)(手)(操)(办)(的)(。  小)(明)(大)(学)(毕)(业)(之)(后)(找)(了)(一)(份)(好)(工)(作)(,因)(为)(工)(作)(能)(力)(强)(,所)(以)(很)(有)(发)(展)(前)(途)(。在)(还)(没)(认)(识)(小)(明)(之)(前)(,菲)(菲)(的)(父)(母)(就)(通)(过)(第)(三)(方)(打)(听)(到)(很)(多)(小)(明)(的)(“底)(细)(”,听)(得)(最)(多)(的)(就)(是)(“他)(很)(顾)(家)(”。  两)(人)(确)(定)(恋)(爱)(关)(系)(后)(,菲)(菲)(确)(实)(感)(受)(到)(小)(明)(“很)(顾)(家)(”。不)(管)(工)(作)(多)(忙)(,他)(都)(会)(争)(取)(早)(点)(回)(家)(陪)(父)(母)(。两)(人)(刚)(开)(始)(约)(会)(时)(,一)(到)(时)(间)(他)(就)(称)(要)(回)(家)(陪)(父)(母)(了)(,以)(免)(父)(母)(担)(心)(。即)(使)(到)(了)(热)(恋)(期)(,不)(管)(看)(电)(影)(或)(玩)(耍)(到)(多)(晚)(,小)(明)(也)(不)(会)(和)(菲)(菲)(在)(外)(过)(夜)(。菲)(菲)(曾)(对)(他)(的)(这)(个)(举)(动)(提)(出)(过)(疑)(问)(,小)(明)(解)(释)(是)(,父)(母)(身)(体)(不)(好)(,他)(不)(在)(家)(不)(放)(心)(。这)(让)(菲)(菲)(很)(感)(动)(,在)(同)(龄)(人)(当)(中)(,这)(么)(懂)(事)(、这)(么)(顾)(家)(、这)(么)(孝)(顺)(父)(母)(的)(男)(人)(并)(不)(多)(见)(,这)(让)(身)(为)(独)(生)(女)(的)(她)(放)(心)(不)(少)(。  独)(守)(  空)(房)(  丈)(夫)(不)(恋)(妻)(子)(常)(住)(父)(母)(家)(  相)(恋)(一)(年)(后)(,菲)(菲)(和)(小)(明)(步)(入)(婚)(姻)(殿)(堂)(,组)(建)(了)(自)(己)(的)(小)(家)(庭)(。因)(为)(婚)(前)(没)(有)(同)(居)(,菲)(菲)(对)(小)(明)(的)(私)(生)(活)(了)(解)(不)(多)(,他)(在)(婚)(后)(暴)(露)(出)(来)(的)(很)(多)(问)(题)(,让)(菲)(菲)(感)(到)(很)(诧)(异)(。  菲)(菲)(说)(,结)(婚)(蜜)(月)(期)(刚)(过)(,小)(明)(就)(以)(探)(望)(父)(母)(为)(由)(,离)(开)(婚)(房)(回)(到)(父)(母)(家)(居)(住)(。刚)(开)(始)(,菲)(菲)(以)(为)(这)(是)(风)(俗)(,虽)(然)(心)(里)(不)(悦)(,但)(没)(敢)(说)(太)(多)(。但)(此)(后)(,丈)(夫)(回)(父)(母)(家)(的)(次)(数)(更)(加)(频)(繁)(,有)(时)(一)(周)(要)(回)(父)(母)(家)(居)(住)(三)(四)(天)(,理)(由)(都)(是)(不)(放)(心)(父)(母)(。这)(个)(理)(由)(让)(菲)(菲)(很)(是)(不)(解)(,家)(公)(家)(婆)(刚)(退)(休)(,身)(体)(也)(很)(好)(,所)(以)(并)(不)(存)(在)(“不)(在)(身)(边)(就)(不)(放)(心)(”一)(说)(。可)(作)(为)(新)(婚)(媳)(妇)(,她)(也)(不)(想)(落)(下)(“刚)(结)(婚)(就)(跟)(婆)(婆)(抢)(儿)(子)(”的)(罪)(名)(,所)(以)(也)(没)(有)(吵)(闹)(,但)(一)(个)(人)(住)(在)(冷)(清)(的)(婚)(房)(不)(免)(伤)(心)(害)(怕)(。  菲)(菲)(表)(示)(,丈)(夫)(每)(次)(都)(是)(下)(班)(了)(直)(接)(回)(父)(母)(家)(,也)(不)(跟)(她)(商)(量)(,只)(是)(打)(电)(话)(告)(知)(一)(声)(。即)(使)(她)(表)(现)(出)(不)(悦)(,丈)(夫)(也)(不)(觉)(得)(自)(己)(回)(父)(母)(家)(有)(什)(么)(地)(方)(得)(罪)(妻)(子)(。“他)(也)(不)(叫)(我)(一)(起)(回)(,好)(像)(他)(跟)(父)(母)(才)(是)(一)(家)(人)(,跟)(我)(不)(是)(一)(家)(人)(。”菲)(菲)(委)(屈)(地)(说)(道)(。  万)(分)(震)(惊)(  丈)(夫)(竟)(要)(三)(人)(同)(睡)(一)(张)(床)(  新)(婚)(没)(多)(久)(就)(总)(是)(夫)(妻)(分)(居)(,让)(菲)(菲)(心)(里)(很)(不)(是)(滋)(味)(。除)(了)(情)(感)(上)(的)(失)(落)(,内)(心)(也)(有)(很)(多)(疑)(虑)(和)(恐)(惧)(。  为)(了)(弄)(清)(楚)(状)(况)(,在)(父)(母)(的)(建)(议)(下)(,菲)(菲)(主)(动)(跟)(丈)(夫)(提)(出)(要)(一)(同)(回)(公)(公)(婆)(婆)(家)(住)(。丈)(夫)(起)(初)(安)(慰)(她)(说)(父)(母)(家)(是)(旧)(房)(,空)(间)(又)(小)(,不)(忍)(心)(让)(她)(跟)(着)(回)(去)(受)(苦)(,但)(菲)(菲)(坚)(持)(要)(同)(往)(,丈)(夫)(只)(好)(答)(应)(。  菲)(菲)(说)(,家)(婆)(性)(格)(直)(爽)(、开)(朗)(、泼)(辣)(,很)(少)(生)(气)(。相)(反)(,她)(的)(家)(公)(很)(沉)(默)(,见)(人)(只)(是)(笑)(笑)(。和)(家)(婆)(相)(处)(时)(,菲)(菲)(从)(不)(插)(话)(,总)(是)(顺)(从)(。对)(于)(这)(个)(乖)(巧)(、懂)(事)(的)(媳)(妇)(,家)(婆)(非)(常)(喜)(欢)(。  “我)(老)(公)(在)(家)(婆)(面)(前)(和)(在)(我)(面)(前)(真)(是)(判)(若)(两)(人)(。”菲)(菲)(说)(,丈)(夫)(会)(对)(着)(家)(婆)(撒)(娇)(,还)(缠)(着)(家)(婆)(一)(起)(聊)(天)(,还)(要)(家)(婆)(给)(他)(热)(牛)(奶)(,甚)(至)(晚)(上)(睡)(觉)(时)(,他)(还)(要)(睡)(在)(家)(婆)(的)(房)(间)(。随)(着)(她)(跟)(丈)(夫)(回)(婆)(家)(住)(的)(次)(数)(越)(来)(越)(多)(,丈)(夫)(这)(种)(怪)(异)(行)(为)(显)(露)(得)(更)(加)(彻)(底)(。“他)(竟)(然)(让)(他)(爸)(爸)(到)(次)(卧)(睡)(,然)(后)(要)(家)(婆)(、我)(和)(他)(三)(个)(人)(睡)(一)(张)(床)(。”菲)(菲)(说)(,当)(丈)(夫)(提)(出)(这)(种)(要)(求)(时)(,她)(被)(吓)(得)(目)(瞪)(口)(呆)(,可)(是)(丈)(夫)(和)(家)(婆)(都)(表)(现)(得)(很)(自)(然)(,家)(公)(也)(只)(是)(笑)(笑)(,然)(后)(去)(了)(次)(卧)(。  菲)(菲)(在)(跟)(记)(者)(讲)(述)(这)(些)(时)(,仍)(然)(难)(以)(平)(复)(内)(心)(的)(不)(适)(。不)(过)(在)(那)(个)(晚)(上)(,她)(虽)(然)(很)(想)(对)(丈)(夫)(和)(家)(婆)(说)(出)(自)(己)(的)(感)(受)(,但)(羞)(于)(启)(齿)(也)(不)(敢)(反)(抗)(,只)(好)(战)(战)(兢)(兢)(地)(过)(了)(一)(夜)(。  矛)(盾)(激)(化)(  丈)(夫)(对)(妻)(子)(的)(抗)(议)(不)(以)(为)(然)(  这)(件)(事)(过)(后)(,菲)(菲)(很)(严)(肃)(地)(向)(丈)(夫)(提)(出)(了)(抗)(议)(,但)(丈)(夫)(却)(毫)(不)(在)(意)(地)(回)(答)(说)(:“这)(很)(正)(常)(啊)(,我)(从)(小)(到)(大)(都)(是)(跟)(我)(妈)(睡)(,我)(妈)(就)(是)(我)(妈)(,再)(怎)(么)(样)(她)(也)(只)(是)(我)(妈)(。”丈)(夫)(还)(指)(责)(她)(胡)(思)(乱)(想)(。  虽)(然)(丈)(夫)(这)(么)(说)(,但)(回)(想)(起)(三)(人)(同)(床)(的)(那)(一)(夜)(,她)(还)(是)(感)(到)(羞)(愧)(难)(当)(。尽)(管)(妻)(子)(提)(出)(了)(抗)(议)(,但)(小)(明)(并)(不)(因)(此)(而)(收)(敛)(,还)(是)(经)(常)(找)(各)(种)(借)(口)(回)(父)(母)(家)(。“只)(有)(在)(我)(怀)(孕)(的)(那)(段)(时)(间)(里)(,他)(才)(基)(本)(在)(家)(住)(。孩)(子)(出)(生)(之)(后)(,他)(又)(恢)(复)(以)(往)(的)(行)(为)(,找)(各)(种)(借)(口)(回)(去)(。”菲)(菲)(说)(,她)(以)(为)(有)(了)(孩)(子)(之)(后)(,丈)(夫)(会)(有)(所)(好)(转)(,但)(没)(想)(到)(孩)(子)(出)(生)(后)(不)(久)(他)(又)(照)(旧)(。她)(以)(孩)(子)(的)(名)(义)(要)(求)(丈)(夫)(不)(要)(离)(开)(家)(,但)(丈)(夫)(却)(说)(父)(母)(家)(也)(是)(家)(,而)(且)(提)(起)(家)(里)(的)(伤)(心)(往)(事)(时)(他)(还)(流)(泪)(。丈)(夫)(告)(诉)(她)(,小)(时)(候)(父)(亲)(因)(工)(作)(原)(因)(常)(年)(不)(在)(家)(,他)(和)(母)(亲)(相)(依)(为)(命)(。母)(亲)(一)(个)(人)(在)(家)(很)(害)(怕)(,睡)(觉)(时)(都)(要)(搂)(着)(他)(才)(能)(睡)(着)(,他)(要)(和)(母)(亲)(一)(起)(睡)(,才)(能)(睡)(得)(踏)(实)(。  “我)(们)(争)(吵)(过)(很)(多)(次)(,我)(告)(诉)(他)(你)(已)(经)(成)(年)(,不)(再)(需)(要)(母)(亲)(保)(护)(,你)(有)(了)(自)(己)(的)(孩)(子)(,你)(要)(保)(护)(自)(己)(的)(孩)(子)(,但)(他)(仍)(然)(不)(听)(劝)(。”菲)(菲)(说)(,两)(三)(年)(的)(婚)(姻)(生)(活)(,她)(就)(受)(够)(了)(,她)(觉)(得)(丈)(夫)(需)(要)(的)(是)(他)(的)(母)(亲)(,而)(不)(是)(她)(。她)(也)(曾)(鼓)(起)(勇)(气)(让)(家)(婆)(劝)(他)(不)(要)(总)(是)(回)(家)(,但)(家)(婆)(的)(回)(答)(更)(让)(她)(心)(灰)(意)(冷)(,“儿)(子)(在)(我)(的)(眼)(里)(永)(远)(是)(儿)(子)(,我)(巴)(不)(得)(他)(天)(天)(给)(我)(当)(乖)(儿)(子)(呢)(。”  菲)(菲)(说)(,为)(解)(决)(这)(个)(问)(题)(,她)(不)(仅)(和)(丈)(夫)(吵)(,就)(连)(和)(家)(婆)(的)(关)(系)(也)(闹)(僵)(了)(。但)(丈)(夫)(并)(不)(认)(为)(这)(是)(自)(己)(的)(错)(,反)(而)(觉)(得)(是)(菲)(菲)(有)(问)(题)(。菲)(菲)(说)(自)(己)(已)(经)(无)(法)(忍)(受)(这)(样)(过)(下)(去)(,但)(孩)(子)(才)(一)(岁)(多)(,自)(己)(该)(怎)(么)(办)(?  专)(家)(支)(招)(  消)(除)(恋)(母)(情)(结)(宜)(疏)(不)(宜)(吵)(  对)(于)(菲)(菲)(的)(遭)(遇)(,广)(西)(社)(会)(心)(理)(学)(会)(午)(后)(阳)(光)(工)(作)(室)(的)(资)(深)(心)(理)(咨)(询)(师)(林)(梅)(分)(析)(认)(为)(,菲)(菲)(的)(丈)(夫)(没)(主)(见)(,不)(能)(独)(立)(,凡)(事)(听)(母)(亲)(的)(话)(,由)(母)(亲)(安)(排)(生)(活)(。而)(他)(的)(母)(亲)(在)(家)(庭)(中)(比)(较)(强)(势)(,从)(小)(帮)(儿)(子)(掌)(管)(一)(切)(。母)(亲)(和)(儿)(子)(相)(依)(为)(命)(,让)(儿)(子)(在)(溺)(爱)(中)(长)(大)(。因)(为)(父)(亲)(长)(期)(不)(在)(家)(,生)(活)(中)(的)(长)(期)(缺)(位)(让)(他)(在)(家)(中)(没)(有)(地)(位)(,也)(无)(力)(反)(抗)(妻)(子)(。从)(菲)(菲)(的)(讲)(述)(来)(看)(,丈)(夫)(的)(父)(母)(之)(间)(缺)(乏)(沟)(通)(,不)(会)(用)(正)(确)(有)(效)(的)(方)(法)(教)(育)(儿)(子)(,造)(成)(儿)(子)(在)(成)(长)(中)(无)(法)(形)(成)(健)(全)(人)(格)(,直)(到)(成)(年)(、结)(婚)(生)(子)(仍)(依)(恋)(和)(依)(赖)(母)(亲)(。  林)(梅)(说)(,在)(溺)(爱)(中)(长)(大)(的)(孩)(子)(,最)(明)(显)(的)(特)(征)(是)(以)(自)(我)(为)(中)(心)(,凡)(事)(从)(自)(己)(出)(发)(,体)(谅)(不)(到)(他)(人)(的)(难)(处)(,给)(他)(人)(造)(成)(很)(大)(的)(困)(扰)(。其)(本)(人)(在)(溺)(爱)(中)(形)(成)(的)(幼)(稚)(无)(能)(会)(不)(断)(发)(展)(下)(去)(。追)(溯)(他)(们)(的)(家)(庭)(特)(别)(是)(童)(年)(的)(生)(活)(经)(历)(,发)(现)(他)(们)(都)(有)(非)(常)(糟)(糕)(的)(父)(母)(,这)(样)(的)(父)(母)(在)(孩)(子)(童)(年)(时)(期)(造)(成)(孩)(子)(不)(健)(全)(的)(人)(格)(,这)(样)(的)(人)(格)(基)(本)(伴)(随)(孩)(子)(一)(生)(,令)(孩)(子)(及)(孩)(子)(周)(边)(的)(人)(痛)(苦)(不)(堪)(,遗)(憾)(终)(身)(。  那)(么)(,菲)(菲)(该)(如)(何)(改)(变)(这)(种)(婚)(姻)(格)(局)(?林)(梅)(认)(为)(,菲)(菲)(和)(丈)(夫)(、家)(婆)(吵)(闹)(只)(会)(让)(问)(题)(更)(糟)(糕)(,一)(旦)(和)(丈)(夫)(形)(成)(敌)(对)(,则)(更)(难)(调)(整)(这)(种)(关)(系)(和)(局)(面)(。林)(梅)(建)(议)(,菲)(菲)(要)(明)(白)(丈)(夫)(的)(这)(种)(行)(为)(是)(如)(何)(形)(成)(的)(,并)(想)(办)(法)(调)(整)(自)(己)(处)(理)(问)(题)(的)(方)(法)(,和)(丈)(夫)(、婆)(婆)(进)(行)(深)(度)(沟)(通)(,表)(达)(自)(己)(的)(难)(处)(,担)(忧)(孩)(子)(的)(未)(来)(,为)(了)(孩)(子)(的)(健)(康)(成)(长)(是)(否)(让)(丈)(夫)(承)(担)(责)(任)(,让)(婆)(婆)(放)(手)(,改)(为)(小)(夫)(妻)(两)(人)(行)(为)(一)(致)(。经)(常)(带)(孩)(子)(看)(望)(爷)(爷)(奶)(奶)(,让)(老)(人)(享)(受)(天)(伦)(之)(乐)(。如)(果)(通)(过)(沟)(通)(调)(节)(仍)(无)(法)(改)(善)(这)(种)(关)(系)(和)(局)(面)(,应)(想)(办)(法)(寻)(求)(专)(业)(机)(构)(进)(入)(家)(庭)(系)(统)(治)(疗)(调)(整)(。林)(梅)(最)(后)(建)(议)(,离)(异)(是)(不)(得)(已)(才)(走)(的)(路)(,必)(须)(慎)(重)(行)(事)(。)!

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