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什么拉开了邻里间距离

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(  俗)(话)(说)(“远)(亲)(不)(如)(近)(邻)(”,邻)(居)(是)(人)(们)(生)(活)(中)(最)(亲)(近)(的)(人)(群)(之)(一)(,可)(如)(今)(,这)(一)(切)(都)(在)(悄)(悄)(改)(变)(着)(。随)(着)(高)(层)(住)(宅)(的)(日)(益)(增)(多)(,邻)(里)(之)(间)(的)(交)(往)(越)(来)(越)(少)(,“老)(死)(不)(相)(往)(来)(”的)(现)(象)(似)(乎)(司)(空)(见)(惯)(了)(。日)(前)(某)(市)(场)(策)(划)(有)(限)(公)(司)(就)(现)(代)(人)(的)(邻)(里)(关)(系)(进)(行)(了)(一)(次)(抽)(样)(调)(查)(,发)(现)(竟)(有)(六)(成)(多)(的)(现)(代)(人)(不)(与)(邻)(居)(往)(来)(。那)(么)(是)(什)(么)(拉)(开)(了)(邻)(里)(之)(间)(的)(距)(离)(呢)(?人)(们)(对)(这)(种)(形)(同)(陌)(路)(的)(邻)(里)(关)(系)(怎)(么)(看)(待)(呢)(?  近)(在)(咫)(尺)(不)(相)(识)(  据)(了)(解)(,近)(日)(某)(市)(场)(策)(划)(有)(限)(公)(司)(就)(现)(代)(人)(的)(邻)(里)(关)(系)(,对)(北)(京)(、上)(海)(、广)(州)(、杭)(州)(、南)(京)(、武)(汉)(6地)(的)(1821户)(普)(通)(家)(庭)(进)(行)(了)(一)(次)(抽)(样)(调)(查)(,结)(果)(发)(现)(44%的)(人)(不)(知)(道)(邻)(居)(的)(名)(字)(,63.3%的)(人)(和)(邻)(居)(不)(相)(往)(来)(。而)(在)(和)(邻)(居)(有)(往)(来)(的)(36.7%中)(,只)(有)(10%会)(经)(常)(来)(往)(,而)(有)(73.3%则)(很)(少)(来)(往)(。另)(据)(北)(京)(市)(的)(一)(份)(调)(查)(报)(告)(统)(计)(,35岁)(以)(下)(青)(年)(人)(中)(,熟)(悉)(自)(己)(所)(有)(邻)(居)(的)(只)(占)(18%;只)(熟)(悉)(个)(别)(或)(者)(只)(是)(点)(头)(之)(交)(的)(占)(41.2%;都)(认)(识)(但)(都)(属)(于)(点)(头)(之)(交)(的)(占)(20.8%。  常)(听)(人)(说)(起)(这)(样)(一)(个)(笑)(话)(:某)(夫)(妇)(的)(套)(间)(里)(堆)(满)(了)(行)(李)(、包)(裹)(、家)(具)(和)(盒)(子)(,屋)(子)(乱)(糟)(糟)(的)(。这)(时)(一)(位)(称)(是)(住)(在)(隔)(壁)(的)(中)(年)(妇)(女)(站)(在)(门)(外)(,说)(道)(:“我)(是)(来)(欢)(迎)(你)(们)(搬)(到)(这)(儿)(的)(,要)(知)(道)(在)(这)(个)(城)(市)(有)(些)(地)(方)(邻)(居)(相)(处)(不)(太)(友)(好)(,有)(些)(居)(民)(楼)(里)(邻)(居)(之)(间)(不)(来)(往)(,就)(连)(隔)(壁)(人)(家)(都)(不)(认)(识)(。可)(是)(在)(我)(们)(这)(幢)(楼)(里)(,大)(家)(都)(非)(常)(友)(好)(、和)(睦)(,我)(们)(就)(像)(一)(家)(人)(一)(样)(快)(快)(乐)(乐)(。我)(相)(信)(你)(们)(会)(在)(这)(儿)(住)(得)(愉)(快)(的)(。”夫)(妇)(俩)(莫)(名)(其)(妙)(地)(相)(互)(看)(了)(一)(眼)(,很)(惊)(讶)(地)(对)(中)(年)(妇)(女)(说)(:“可)(是)(,我)(们)(不)(是)(新)(搬)(来)(的)(,我)(们)(在)(这)(住)(了)(已)(经)(两)(年)(了)(,明)(天)(我)(们)(就)(要)(搬)(家)(了)(。”  这)(个)(笑)(话)(真)(实)(生)(动)(地)(反)(映)(了)(邻)(里)(关)(系)(淡)(漠)(的)(现)(象)(。有)(人)(形)(容)(现)(代)(城)(市)(的)(人)(们)(生)(活)(在)(一)(种)(“水)(泥)(森)(林)(”中)(,在)(那)(些)(钢)(筋)(水)(泥)(所)(构)(筑)(起)(来)(的)(看)(似)(安)(全)(舒)(适)(的)(堡)(垒)(里)(面)(,人)(与)(人)(之)(间)(的)(温)(情)(距)(离)(被)(钢)(筋)(、水)(泥)(隔)(开)(,越)(来)(越)(远)(了)(。同)(楼)(相)(住)(不)(知)(邻)(者)(为)(谁)(已)(被)(人)(们)(接)(受)(和)(默)(认)(了)(。  关)(心)(少)(了)(不)(便)(多)(了)(  家)(住)(北)(京)(宣)(武)(区)(菜)(市)(口)(南)(大)(街)(平)(原)(里)(小)(区)(的)(胡)(大)(妈)(说)(:“现)(在)(邻)(居)(之)(间)(来)(往)(少)(了)(,遇)(到)(点)(什)(么)(难)(事)(几)(乎)(全)(得)(靠)(自)(己)(了)(,根)(本)(没)(法)(指)(望)(别)(人)(。”今)(年)(60岁)(的)(胡)(大)(妈)(,是)(真)(正)(体)(味)(过)(大)(杂)(院)(、四)(合)(院)(那)(种)(邻)(里)(亲)(情)(的)(那)(代)(人)(。她)(说)(,当)(时)(日)(子)(虽)(然)(很)(苦)(,但)(街)(坊)(邻)(居)(彼)(此)(都)(很)(友)(爱)(很)(热)(心)(,就)(像)(一)(家)(人)(似)(的)(。可)(现)(在)(出)(门)(碰)(面)(点)(个)(头)(,就)(已)(经)(算)(不)(错)(的)(了)(。一)(次)(胡)(大)(妈)(的)(脚)(不)(小)(心)(给)(扭)(了)(一)(下)(,肿)(了)(,当)(时)(电)(梯)(正)(在)(维)(修)(,她)(便)(一)(拐)(一)(拐)(走)(走)(停)(停)(地)(爬)(上)(楼)(,手)(里)(还)(拎)(着)(一)(包)(重)(东)(西)(,很)(费)(劲)(。上)(上)(下)(下)(的)(人)(,没)(有)(一)(个)(人)(停)(下)(来)(问)(问)(。等)(胡)(大)(妈)(回)(了)(家)(,发)(现)(连)(小)(腿)(处)(都)(已)(经)(肿)(得)(老)(高)(了)(。胡)(大)(妈)(说)(幸)(好)(这)(还)(不)(是)(个)(急)(事)(,要)(真)(遇)(上)(急)(事)(,她)(找)(谁)(帮)(忙)(去)(?  前)(年)(在)(广)(安)(门)(大)(街)(买)(了)(房)(子)(的)(赵)(义)(先)(生)(告)(诉)(笔)(者)(说)(,邻)(里)(关)(系)(冷)(淡)(,有)(时)(达)(到)(了)(令)(人)(吃)(惊)(的)(程)(度)(。邻)(居)(们)(上)(班)(、下)(班)(、休)(息)(的)(时)(间)(互)(不)(协)(调)(,平)(时)(谁)(也)(不)(会)(主)(动)(敲)(一)(敲)(对)(方)(的)(门)(。他)(说)(他)(到)(现)(在)(还)(不)(知)(道)(一)(墙)(之)(隔)(的)(邻)(居)(姓)(什)(么)(、叫)(什)(么)(、在)(哪)(儿)(工)(作)(。一)(次)(他)(想)(询)(问)(管)(道)(维)(修)(的)(电)(话)(,一)(位)(邻)(居)(居)(然)(随)(口)(嘣)(出)(了)(一)(句)(“打)(114查)(”,就)(径)(直)(关)(上)(了)(防)(盗)(门)(,令)(他)(哭)(笑)(不)(得)(。赵)(义)(认)(为)(,保)(持)(一)(定)(距)(离)(可)(以)(理)(解)(,但)(同)(住)(一)(栋)(楼)(,彼)(此)(间)(长)(期)(如)(此)(隔)(阂)(,并)(非)(好)(事)(。不)(但)(邻)(里)(之)(间)(少)(了)(一)(点)(温)(情)(,而)(且)(也)(不)(利)(于)(自)(身)(的)(安)(全)(。要)(遇)(到)(小)(偷)(行)(窃)(之)(类)(的)(事)(,邻)(里)(之)(间)(相)(互)(照)(应)(着)(,该)(多)(好)(。  社)(区)(活)(动)(拉)(近)(邻)(里)(距)(离)(  邻)(里)(之)(间)(为)(什)(么)(会)(出)(现)(“近)(在)(咫)(尺)(不)(相)(识)(”的)(现)(状)(呢)(?有)(人)(认)(为)(是)(生)(活)(方)(式)(改)(变)(所)(致)(,有)(人)(认)(为)(是)(人)(情)(淡)(化)(造)(成)(,有)(人)(认)(为)(是)(出)(于)(治)(安)(防)(范)(需)(要)(,也)(有)(人)(认)(为)(这)(是)(个)(人)(的)(隐)(私)(和)(生)(活)(习)(惯)(问)(题)(。  社)(会)(学)(家)(周)(教)(授)(分)(析)(指)(出)(,一)(是)(因)(为)(人)(们)(住)(房)(的)(改)(变)(。原)(来)(是)(弄)(堂)(胡)(同)(,一)(开)(门)(就)(可)(以)(见)(到)(邻)(居)(,而)(如)(今)(是)(高)(楼)(大)(厦)(,独)(门)(独)(户)(,难)(得)(见)(一)(面)(;原)(来)(单)(位)(分)(房)(,大)(家)(在)(外)(是)(同)(事)(,在)(家)(是)(邻)(居)(,而)(如)(今)(都)(是)(商)(品)(房)(,天)(南)(地)(北)(谁)(也)(不)(认)(识)(谁)(。二)(是)(因)(为)(在)(市)(场)(经)(济)(激)(烈)(的)(竞)(争)(压)(力)(下)(,人)(们)(着)(力)(为)(生)(计)(和)(发)(展)(奋)(斗)(,似)(乎)(无)(暇)(关)(注)(别)(人)(,邻)(里)(亲)(情)(关)(系)(渐)(渐)(淡)(漠)(,这)(是)(个)(很)(现)(实)(的)(问)(题)(。三)(是)(因)(为)(人)(们)(观)(念)(的)(改)(变)(。现)(代)(人)(的)(隐)(私)(观)(念)(和)(独)(立)(意)(识)(不)(断)(加)(强)(,许)(多)(人)(不)(愿)(意)(多)(管)(别)(人)(的)(闲)(事)(,也)(不)(愿)(意)(自)(己)(的)(事)(被)(邻)(居)(知)(道)(太)(多)(,主)(动)(和)(别)(人)(搭)(讪)(可)(能)(会)(被)(人)(误)(会)(是)(窥)(探)(别)(人)(的)(隐)(私)(。需)(要)(指)(出)(的)(是)(,如)(今)(的)(邻)(里)(关)(系)(实)(际)(上)(是)(居)(住)(条)(件)(改)(变)(下)(的)(一)(种)(新)(的)(人)(际)(关)(系)(,条)(件)(改)(变)(了)(人)(的)(思)(维)(随)(之)(而)(改)(变)(,一)(味)(强)(调)(某)(种)(氛)(围)(显)(然)(有)(点)(不)(实)(际)(。  那)(么)(通)(过)(什)(么)(来)(拉)(近)(、缩)(小)(这)(个)(距)(离)(呢)(?在)(采)(访)(中)(不)(少)(人)(向)(笔)(者)(提)(出)(,认)(为)(由)(小)(区)(物)(业)(或)(居)(委)(会)(组)(织)(社)(区)(活)(动)(不)(失)(为)(一)(个)(尝)(试)(。这)(样)(的)(社)(区)(活)(动)(将)(有)(助)(于)(人)(们)(从)(认)(识)(到)(熟)(识)(,从)(视)(而)(不)(见)(到)(互)(相)(帮)(助)(,有)(助)(于)(住)(户)(之)(间)(彼)(此)(的)(交)(流)(和)(沟)(通)(,从)(而)(拉)(近)(人)(与)(人)(之)(间)(的)(温)(情)(距)(离)(。不)(过)(不)(管)(是)(什)(么)(活)(动)(,关)(键)(在)(于)(人)(们)(是)(否)(愿)(意)(把)(自)(己)(融)(入)(群)(体)(之)(中)(,这)(样)(同)(住)(一)(楼)(,彼)(此)(融)(洽)(相)(处)(,才)(会)(方)(便)(得)(多)(。  (摘)(自)(《生)(活)(时)(报)(》廖)(爱)(玲)(文)()  转)(自)(搜)(狐)()!

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