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三件家事让两人彻底反目

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((资)(料)(图)(片)()  彩)(礼)(、分)(家)(、带)(娃)(,三)(件)(关)(键)(家)(事)(让)(两)(人)(彻)(底)(反)(目)(  儿)(媳)(12年)(不)(让)(婆)(婆)(进)(家)(门)(  专)(家)(:男)(人)(夹)(在)(婆)(媳)(中)(间)(应)(该)(当)(好)(“双)(面)(胶)(”  广)(西)(新)(闻)(网)(-当)(代)(生)(活)(报)(记)(者)(覃)(燕)(燕)(  核)(心)(提)(示)(  韦)(阿)(婆)(70岁)(了)(,十)(几)(年)(来)(一)(直)(住)(在)(女)(婿)(家)(,帮)(女)(儿)(素)(宁)(带)(孩)(子)(,日)(子)(过)(得)(平)(淡)(而)(安)(定)(。可)(是)(,随)(着)(年)(纪)(越)(来)(越)(大)(,韦)(阿)(婆)(开)(始)(担)(心)(起)(自)(己)(的)(身)(后)(事)(来)(——她)(害)(怕)(自)(己)(哪)(天)(突)(然)(死)(在)(女)(婿)(家)(,到)(时)(候)(会)(让)(人)(嚼)(舌)(根)(,说)(她)(白)(养)(了)(一)(个)(儿)(子)(,因)(为)(素)(宁)(的)(大)(哥)(没)(有)(给)(她)(养)(老)(送)(终)(。  素)(宁)(明)(白)(,母)(亲)(的)(担)(忧)(并)(非)(“想)(太)(多)(”。因)(为)(按)(照)(老)(家)(的)(习)(俗)(,老)(人)(晚)(年)(要)(跟)(儿)(子)(过)(,去)(世)(后)(由)(儿)(子)(主)(持)(葬)(礼)(体)(面)(下)(葬)(。素)(宁)(很)(理)(解)(母)(亲)(,但)(同)(时)(也)(很)(苦)(恼)(——母)(亲)(和)(大)(嫂)(反)(目)(成)(仇)(12年)(了)(,大)(嫂)(还)(曾)(放)(话)(“死)(也)(不)(让)(婆)(婆)(进)(家)(门)(”。老)(太)(太)(“想)(死)(在)(儿)(子)(家)(”的)(愿)(望)(,几)(乎)(不)(可)(能)(实)(现)(。  究)(竟)(是)(什)(么)(样)(的)(矛)(盾)(,导)(致)(韦)(阿)(婆)(婆)(媳)(之)(间)(关)(系)(变)(得)(如)(此)(糟)(糕)(?素)(宁)(向)(记)(者)(讲)(述)(了)(母)(亲)(和)(大)(嫂)(之)(间)(的)(那)(些)(恩)(恩)(怨)(怨)(。  以)(下)(是)(素)(宁)(的)(口)(述)(记)(录)(——  1  彩)(礼)(之)(争)(  女)(方)(父)(亡)(母)(改)(嫁)(  婆)(婆)(坚)(持)(不)(给)(彩)(礼)(  说)(实)(话)(,我)(妈)(从)(一)(开)(始)(就)(看)(不)(上)(嫂)(子)(。嫂)(子)(家)(在)(农)(村)(,家)(里)(还)(有)(两)(个)(哥)(哥)(。嫂)(子)(读)(初)(中)(的)(时)(候)(,她)(的)(爸)(爸)(过)(世)(,妈)(妈)(丢)(下)(孩)(子)(改)(嫁)(他)(乡)(。所)(以)(嫂)(子)(很)(早)(外)(就)(出)(打)(工)(了)(,个)(性)(比)(较)(泼)(辣)(。  也)(许)(是)(嫌)(弃)(嫂)(子)(家)(里)(穷)(,又)(或)(许)(是)(考)(虑)(到)(“软)(柿)(子)(”脾)(气)(的)(大)(哥)(可)(能)(降)(不)(住)(嫂)(子)(,我)(妈)(一)(开)(始)(就)(强)(烈)(反)(对)(大)(哥)(娶)(嫂)(子)(过)(门)(。但)(大)(哥)(像)(是)(吃)(了)(迷)(魂)(药)(一)(样)(,一)(直)(追)(着)(嫂)(子)(不)(放)(。  我)(们)(家)(虽)(在)(镇)(上)(,但)(家)(里)(并)(不)(富)(裕)(。大)(哥)(性)(格)(内)(向)(,年)(轻)(时)(没)(有)(正)(经)(工)(作)(,考)(虑)(到)(这)(些)(实)(际)(问)(题)(,娶)(妻)(生)(子)(的)(事)(情)(宜)(早)(不)(宜)(迟)(,老)(妈)(也)(就)(默)(认)(了)(大)(哥)(和)(嫂)(子)(处)(对)(象)(。  2002年)(,大)(哥)(和)(嫂)(子)(登)(记)(结)(婚)(。嫂)(子)(的)(娘)(家)(亲)(戚)(提)(出)(,在)(摆)(酒)(席)(前)(,男)(方)(要)(按)(照)(当)(地)(风)(俗)(送)(大)(饼)(、猪)(肉)(、大)(米)(等)(聘)(礼)(至)(女)(方)(家)(,并)(请)(女)(方)(家)(所)(有)(亲)(戚)(吃)(一)(顿)(饭)(。嫂)(子)(的)(叔)(叔)(还)(说)(,应)(该)(按)(村)(里)(的)(风)(俗)(给)(大)(嫂)(的)(两)(个)(哥)(哥)(送)(不)(少)(于)(3000元)(的)(礼)(金)(。  嫂)(子)(家)(提)(出)(的)(这)(些)(要)(求)(,很)(快)(被)(我)(妈)(一)(口)(回)(绝)(。她)(说)(,送)(大)(饼)(、猪)(肉)(、大)(米)(等)(聘)(礼)(没)(问)(题)(,但)(嫂)(子)(的)(父)(亲)(早)(早)(去)(世)(,老)(妈)(又)(改)(嫁)(杳)(无)(音)(讯)(,两)(个)(哥)(哥)(没)(对)(妹)(妹)(尽)(到)(抚)(养)(义)(务)(,没)(有)(资)(格)(收)(礼)(金)(。  我)(妈)(是)(个)(强)(势)(的)(人)(,她)(认)(定)(的)(事)(,很)(少)(改)(变)(主)(意)(。再)(加)(上)(当)(年)(大)(哥)(也)(没)(什)(么)(积)(蓄)(,在)(摆)(酒)(送)(聘)(礼)(这)(些)(事)(上)(也)(没)(有)(什)(么)(话)(语)(权)(。所)(以)(,3000元)(礼)(金)(的)(事)(就)(没)(了)(下)(文)(。  正)(是)(因)(为)(这)(3000元)(,令)(嫂)(子)(觉)(得)(她)(在)(娘)(家)(丢)(尽)(了)(脸)(面)(。  2  分)(家)(引)(火)(  小)(两)(口)(要)(建)(房)(单)(过)(  家)(婆)(不)(借)(钱)(惹)(怒)(儿)(媳)(  哥)(嫂)(结)(婚)(后)(,我)(随)(他)(俩)(到)(亲)(戚)(家)(开)(的)(饭)(店)(打)(工)(,当)(起)(了)(服)(务)(员)(。嫂)(子)(性)(子)(泼)(辣)(,但)(对)(我)(还)(是)(很)(照)(顾)(的)(。那)(时)(候)(,她)(虽)(然)(对)(我)(妈)(偶)(有)(抱)(怨)(,但)(考)(虑)(到)(刚)(结)(婚)(且)(和)(公)(婆)(住)(在)(一)(起)(,家)(里)(开)(支)(都)(是)(我)(父)(亲)(在)(负)(责)(,不)(好)(撕)(破)(脸)(皮)(,所)(以)(结)(婚)(第)(1年)(,婆)(媳)(之)(间)(并)(没)(有)(发)(生)(过)(太)(严)(重)(的)(正)(面)(冲)(突)(。  2003年)(,我)(父)(亲)(突)(发)(疾)(病)(去)(世)(,家)(里)(顿)(时)(失)(去)(了)(主)(要)(经)(济)(来)(源)(,嫂)(子)(动)(起)(了)(分)(家)(的)(念)(头)(。  我)(父)(亲)(身)(后)(留)(有)(一)(块)(地)(皮)(,当)(年)(哥)(嫂)(结)(婚)(前)(已)(说)(好)(是)(留)(给)(大)(哥)(起)(房)(子)(用)(的)(,嫂)(子)(自)(然)(“盯)(”上)(了)(那)(块)(地)(。但)(哥)(嫂)(积)(蓄)(很)(少)(,连)(自)(建)(一)(层)(平)(房)(的)(钱)(都)(没)(有)(,嫂)(子)(就)(让)(大)(哥)(开)(口)(向)(我)(妈)(借)(钱)(。  我)(父)(亲)(没)(有)(太)(多)(遗)(产)(,他)(生)(前)(的)(积)(蓄)(和)(亲)(戚)(送)(来)(的)(人)(情)(金)(,加)(起)(来)(有)(1万)(元)(,由)(我)(妈)(掌)(管)(。嫂)(子)(认)(为)(,这)(笔)(钱)(应)(该)(分)(成)(3等)(份)(,我)(、我)(哥)(及)(我)(妈)(各)(一)(份)(。因)(为)(哥)(嫂)(急)(着)(建)(房)(,嫂)(子)(就)(想)(先)(借)(我)(和)(我)(妈)(的)(那)(部)(分)(钱)(来)(用)(。  谁)(知)(,我)(妈)(不)(干)(了)(。老)(妈)(直)(接)(当)(着)(大)(家)(的)(面)(说)(,留)(那)(块)(地)(给)(我)(哥)(起)(房)(子)(,已)(经)(算)(“仁)(至)(义)(尽)(”了)(,这)(1万)(元)(的)(现)(金)(,大)(哥)(没)(有)(资)(格)(分)(割)(。至)(于)(这)(笔)(钱)(,老)(妈)(爱)(给)(谁)(就)(给)(谁)(,嫂)(子)(这)(个)(外)(人)(管)(不)(着)(。  我)(妈)(后)(来)(告)(诉)(我)(,她)(当)(时)(的)(目)(的)(只)(是)(想)(阻)(止)(大)(哥)(分)(家)(,但)(却)(因)(此)(惹)(怒)(了)(嫂)(子)(。嫂)(子)(一)(气)(之)(下)(跟)(娘)(家)(人)(和)(朋)(友)(借)(了)(一)(些)(钱)(,跟)(大)(哥)(盖)(起)(了)(一)(间)(小)(平)(房)(,一)(家)(人)(从)(此)(分)(成)(了)(两)(家)(过)(。  3  彻)(底)(反)(目)(  女)(儿)(儿)(媳)(同)(时)(生)(娃)(  老)(太)(太)(选)(择)(带)(外)(孙)(  哥)(嫂)(搬)(出)(去)(后)(没)(多)(久)(,我)(也)(谈)(了)(对)(象)(。婚)(后)(,我)(和)(老)(公)(到)(南)(宁)(打)(工)(,在)(城)(中)(村)(租)(房)(子)(住)(,没)(多)(久)(我)(就)(怀)(孕)(了)(。让)(人)(意)(外)(的)(是)(,在)(我)(检)(查)(出)(怀)(孕)(的)(1个)(月)(后)(,在)(老)(家)(的)(嫂)(子)(也)(怀)(孕)(了)(。  一)(边)(是)(女)(儿)(和)(女)(婿)(在)(外)(漂)(泊)(,一)(边)(是)(儿)(子)(和)(儿)(媳)(住)(进)(新)(房)(丢)(下)(家)(婆)(,我)(妈)(心)(里)(的)(天)(平)(自)(然)(向)(我)(这)(边)(倾)(斜)(。2004年)(,我)(顺)(利)(生)(下)(儿)(子)(,坐)(月)(子)(的)(时)(候)(,我)(妈)(赶)(到)(南)(宁)(,无)(微)(不)(至)(地)(伺)(候)(我)(们)(母)(子)(。  老)(妈)(的)(付)(出)(,我)(和)(老)(公)(都)(看)(在)(眼)(里)(。老)(公)(对)(她)(特)(别)(感)(激)(,两)(人)(之)(间)(相)(处)(得)(很)(好)(,不)(知)(情)(的)(邻)(居)(都)(以)(为)(他)(们)(是)(一)(对)(亲)(母)(子)(。  相)(反)(,嫂)(子)(和)(老)(妈)(的)(关)(系)(越)(处)(越)(僵)(。我)(做)(月)(子)(的)(时)(候)(,嫂)(子)(和)(大)(哥)(来)(看)(望)(我)(,但)(嫂)(子)(仍)(在)(气)(头)(上)(,一)(直)(没)(有)(正)(眼)(瞧)(过)(我)(妈)(,更)(别)(提)(说)(话)(了)(。嫂)(子)(竟)(然)(不)(主)(动)(打)(招)(呼)(,令)(本)(就)(小)(心)(眼)(的)(老)(妈)(更)(加)(不)(爽)(,事)(后)(她)(还)(气)(鼓)(鼓)(地)(跟)(我)(说)(:“看)(她)(生)(孩)(子)(后)(求)(不)(求)(我)(!”我)(当)(时)(以)(为)(,等)(嫂)(子)(生)(了)(孩)(子)(,老)(妈)(自)(然)(会)(放)(下)(身)(段)(过)(去)(照)(顾)(亲)(孙)(子)(,嫂)(子)(也)(会)(不)(计)(前)(嫌)(慢)(慢)(接)(受)(老)(妈)(。  可)(是)(,我)(猜)(错)(了)(。这)(对)(婆)(媳)(就)(像)(天)(敌)(一)(样)(,互)(不)(让)(步)(。不)(知)(道)(是)(不)(是)(产)(后)(心)(情)(不)(好)(,老)(妈)(去)(医)(院)(看)(望)(亲)(孙)(子)(的)(时)(候)(,嫂)(子)(竟)(新)(仇)(旧)(恨)(一)(起)(算)(,把)(我)(妈)(直)(接)(赶)(出)(了)(病)(房)(。我)(妈)(一)(气)(之)(下)(又)(跑)(来)(南)(宁)(,继)(续)(帮)(我)(带)(孩)(子)(。  就)(这)(样)(,嫂)(子)(坐)(月)(子)(期)(间)(一)(直)(由)(大)(哥)(伺)(候)(。而)(我)(因)(为)(忙)(于)(照)(顾)(幼)(子)(,也)(无)(暇)(调)(解)(老)(妈)(和)(大)(嫂)(之)(间)(的)(矛)(盾)(。再)(加)(上)(自)(己)(有)(些)(私)(心)(,也)(想)(让)(老)(妈)(多)(帮)(手)(一)(段)(时)(间)(,所)(以)(,每)(次)(我)(妈)(抱)(怨)(大)(嫂)(的)(不)(是)(,我)(都)(没)(有)(反)(驳)(她)(老)(人)(家)(。我)(当)(时)(还)(想)(,大)(不)(了)(以)(后)(靠)(我)(自)(己)(养)(母)(亲)(就)(是)(了)(。  4  婆)(媳)(比)(狠)(  互)(不)(理)(睬)(十)(几)(年)(  小)(姑)(子)(尴)(尬)(又)(无)(奈)(  医)(院)(事)(件)(过)(后)(,老)(妈)(和)(嫂)(子)(开)(始)(互)(不)(往)(来)(。  大)(哥)(的)(性)(格)(比)(较)(“软)(”。刚)(开)(始)(婆)(媳)(不)(和)(的)(时)(候)(,他)(还)(帮)(着)(和)(稀)(泥)(;时)(间)(长)(了)(,他)(发)(现)(两)(头)(的)(火)(都)(灭)(不)(了)(,索)(性)(选)(择)(沉)(默)(。对)(于)(大)(哥)(的)(处)(境)(,我)(一)(直)(深)(表)(同)(情)(。可)(我)(身)(为)(小)(姑)(子)(,也)(没)(有)(资)(格)(对)(嫂)(子)(说)(三)(道)(四)(,所)(以)(,更)(多)(的)(时)(候)(,我)(只)(能)(叹)(气)(不)(语)(。  这)(几)(年)(,我)(和)(老)(公)(回)(老)(家)(起)(了)(房)(子)(,我)(妈)(也)(一)(起)(回)(到)(老)(家)(居)(住)(。尽)(管)(我)(家)(和)(哥)(嫂)(家)(相)(距)(不)(到)(2公)(里)(,但)(嫂)(子)(一)(直)(没)(来)(看)(望)(过)(我)(妈)(。逢)(年)(过)(节)(,老)(妈)(也)(都)(住)(在)(我)(家)(,不)(肯)(去)(大)(哥)(家)(串)(门)(。每)(年)(大)(年)(三)(十)(下)(午)(,大)(哥)(都)(是)(独)(自)(一)(人)(带)(些)(年)(货)(来)(看)(望)(老)(妈)(,晚)(饭)(前)(又)(匆)(匆)(赶)(回)(自)(己)(家)(。就)(连)(清)(明)(祭)(祖)(时)(,我)(妈)(都)(不)(能)(去)(大)(哥)(家)(吃)(饭)(,因)(为)(嫂)(子)(会)(不)(高)(兴)(。每)(次)(见)(到)(嫂)(子)(,我)(都)(觉)(得)(既)(尴)(尬)(又)(无)(奈)(。  每)(个)(月)(,大)(哥)(都)(会)(偷)(偷)(摸)(摸)(给)(我)(寄)(两)(三)(百)(块)(钱)(,算)(是)(给)(老)(妈)(的)(伙)(食)(费)(。而)(我)(也)(认)(为)(,既)(然)(老)(妈)(和)(嫂)(子)(处)(不)(来)(,这)(样)(相)(安)(无)(事)(也)(挺)(好)(。  直)(到)(今)(年)(,老)(妈)(身)(体)(越)(来)(越)(差)(,进)(医)(院)(的)(次)(数)(越)(来)(越)(多)(,我)(才)(开)(始)(感)(觉)(到)(有)(点)(力)(不)(从)(心)(。我)(多)(么)(希)(望)(大)(哥)(嫂)(子)(能)(帮)(我)(分)(担)(一)(点)(照)(顾)(老)(人)(的)(压)(力)(,但)(每)(次)(跟)(大)(哥)(开)(口)(提)(这)(事)(,大)(哥)(总)(是)(一)(脸)(为)(难)(的)(表)(情)(。我)(知)(道)(,因)(为)(掏)(钱)(给)(我)(妈)(治)(病)(,大)(哥)(回)(家)(肯)(定)(没)(少)(受)(嫂)(子)(的)(气)(。大)(哥)(后)(来)(也)(打)(电)(话)(告)(诉)(我)(,大)(嫂)(死)(活)(不)(同)(意)(让)(我)(妈)(去)(大)(哥)(家)(住)(。她)(还)(放)(话)(说)(:“这)(个)(家)(有)(她)(没)(我)(,有)(我)(没)(她)(!”  我)(妈)(的)(心)(情)(,现)(在)(是)(越)(来)(越)(低)(落)(。她)(最)(近)(常)(常)(跟)(我)(说)(,她)(不)(想)(死)(在)(女)(儿)(女)(婿)(家)(,怕)(会)(惹)(人)(非)(议)(。她)(想)(搬)(回)(家)(里)(的)(老)(房)(子)(,“死)(也)(要)(死)(在)(自)(己)(家)(”。其)(实)(我)(早)(就)(猜)(到)(了)(,尽)(管)(我)(妈)(住)(在)(我)(这)(里)(还)(算)(舒)(服)(,但)(她)(始)(终)(希)(望)(由)(儿)(子)(给)(她)(养)(老)(送)(终)(。  一)(边)(是)(一)(心)(想)(离)(开)(我)(家)(的)(老)(妈)(,一)(边)(是)(我)(没)(法)(劝)(得)(动)(的)(嫂)(子)(,我)(真)(的)(不)(知)(道)(自)(己)(应)(该)(怎)(么)(办)(。有)(时)(我)(还)(会)(想)(,如)(果)(当)(年)(不)(让)(老)(妈)(帮)(我)(带)(孩)(子)(,如)(果)(我)(早)(一)(点)(从)(中)(劝)(和)(,她)(们)(的)(关)(系)(会)(不)(会)(比)(现)(在)(好)(一)(些)(?  专)(家)(点)(评)(  婆)(媳)(水)(火)(不)(容)(男)(人)(应)(成)(为)(“双)(面)(胶)(”  点)(评)(人)(:广)(西)(婚)(姻)(家)(庭)(研)(究)(会)(副)(会)(长)(陈)(一)(  陈)(一)(指)(出)(,在)(这)(个)(案)(例)(中)(,素)(宁)(那)(位)(性)(格)(很)(“软)(”的)(大)(哥)(实)(际)(上)(起)(到)(了)(十)(分)(关)(键)(的)(作)(用)(,他)(始)(终)(夹)(在)(婆)(媳)(中)(间)(,却)(又)(不)(能)(很)(好)(地)(处)(理)(母)(亲)(与)(老)(婆)(之)(间)(的)(关)(系)(,最)(终)(导)(致)(婆)(媳)(关)(系)(势)(成)(水)(火)(。在)(存)(在)(婆)(媳)(问)(题)(的)(家)(庭)(里)(面)(,一)(个)(所)(谓)(的)(“双)(面)(胶)(”男)(人)(是)(解)(决)(几)(乎)(所)(有)(矛)(盾)(的)(关)(键)(点)(。这)(个)(男)(人)(既)(是)(妈)(妈)(的)(儿)(子)(,同)(时)(又)(是)(老)(婆)(的)(老)(公)(、孩)(子)(的)(父)(亲)(。他)(需)(要)(努)(力)(去)(维)(系)(婚)(姻)(和)(家)(庭)(的)(平)(衡)(关)(系)(。  陈)(一)(根)(据)(自)(己)(处)(理)(过)(的)(婚)(恋)(家)(庭)(案)(子)(和)(电)(视)(节)(目)(的)(调)(解)(经)(验)(,特)(别)(针)(对)(“双)(面)(胶)(”们)(提)(出)(了)(几)(点)(建)(议)(以)(供)(参)(考)(:  1.要)(和)(老)(婆)(充)(分)(沟)(通)(。老)(婆)(毕)(竟)(比)(老)(妈)(年)(轻)(,如)(今)(多)(数)(儿)(媳)(的)(文)(化)(水)(平)(和)(思)(想)(意)(识)(比)(老)(人)(高)(,理)(解)(问)(题)(的)(能)(力)(也)(较)(强)(。老)(公)(要)(让)(老)(婆)(认)(识)(到)(家)(庭)(和)(谐)(的)(重)(要)(性)(、尊)(老)(的)(必)(要)(性)(。改)(变)(固)(执)(的)(老)(人)(相)(对)(困)(难)(,但)(调)(整)(自)(己)(的)(状)(态)(相)(对)(容)(易)(些)(,所)(以)(对)(老)(人)(做)(到)(以)(礼)(相)(待)(是)(关)(键)(环)(节)(。  2.要)(多)(和)(老)(妈)(说)(些)(甜)(言)(蜜)(语)(。老)(妈)(骨)(子)(里)(都)(是)(爱)(儿)(子)(的)(,谁)(不)(希)(望)(自)(己)(的)(儿)(子)(幸)(福)(呢)(?儿)(子)(要)(主)(动)(告)(诉)(老)(妈)(,自)(己)(现)(在)(和)(老)(婆)(相)(处)(得)(很)(好)(,如)(果)(老)(妈)(真)(的)(为)(了)(儿)(子)(好)(,就)(应)(该)(少)(指)(责)(儿)(媳)(妇)(,多)(一)(点)(宽)(容)(和)(包)(容)(。这)(不)(是)(为)(了)(媳)(妇)(,而)(是)(不)(让)(儿)(子)(为)(难)(。  3.出)(现)(矛)(盾)(的)(时)(候)(,要)(及)(时)(面)(对)(和)(处)(理)(,不)(要)(任)(由)(事)(态)(扩)(大)(。俗)(话)(说)(的)(“和)(稀)(泥)(”就)(是)(这)(个)(道)(理)(。很)(多)(家)(庭)(其)(实)(都)(是)(小)(矛)(盾)(没)(有)(处)(理)(好)(,因)(为)(误)(会)(或)(是)(没)(有)(及)(时)(解)(决)(,导)(致)(矛)(盾)(最)(终)(扩)(大)(到)(无)(法)(解)(决)(、双)(方)(互)(不)(信)(任)(、水)(火)(不)(容)(的)(地)(步)(。  4.男)(人)(要)(同)(时)(多)(给)(双)(方)(建)(议)(,站)(在)(对)(方)(的)(立)(场)(来)(思)(考)(问)(题)(,在)(有)(原)(则)(的)(情)(况)(下)(,可)(以)(各)(自)(退)(让)(一)(步)(,自)(然)(海)(阔)(天)(空)(。  5.最)(关)(键)(的)(一)(点)(,千)(万)(不)(要)(帮)(双)(方)(传)(递)(未)(经)(“过)(滤)(”的)(原)(话)(。多)(说)(好)(听)(的)(,少)(说)(不)(好)(听)(的)(,让)(负)(面)(的)(情)(绪)(和)(语)(言)(在)(你)(这)(里)(消)(失)(,否)(则)(,你)(的)(传)(话)(就)(是)(矛)(盾)(开)(始)(的)(标)(志)(。圆)(滑)(处)(理)(家)(庭)(关)(系)(对)(于)(一)(个)(“双)(面)(胶)(”男)(人)(来)(说)(,可)(以)(说)(是)(维)(持)(婚)(恋)(家)(庭)(的)(一)(门)(重)(要)(功)(课)(。)!

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