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评论:徘徊在欲望与痛苦之间

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(评)(论)(:徘)(徊)(在)(欲)(望)(与)(痛)(苦)(之)(间)(大)(学)(生)(如)(何)(走)(出)(同)(居)(误)(区)(2001年)(12月)(4日)(11:54 人)(民)(网)(  现)(象)(:个)(别)(大)(学)(生)(校)(外)(同)(居)(  谈)(起)(几)(天)(前)(的)(那)(次)(经)(历)(,在)(报)(社)(工)(作)(的)(张)(先)(生)(仍)(如)(同)(梦)(境)(:在)(昌)(平)(区)(东)(关)(几)(所)(高)(校)(附)(近)(的)(一)(家)(洗)(浴)(中)(心)(,他)(正)(朝)(一)(个)(桑)(拿)(小)(间)(室)(走)(时)(,被)(两)(名)(青)(年)(男)(女)(抢)(了)(个)(先)(。“那)(分)(明)(还)(是)(大)(学)(生)(。”正)(犯)(嘀)(咕)(,张)(先)(生)(听)(见)(男)(青)(年)(对)(女)(同)(伴)(说)(:“好)(不)(容)(易)(考)(完)(了)(,正)(好)(轻)(松)(一)(下)(。今)(天)(该)(你)(洗)(衣)(服)(了)(。”就)(在)(张)(先)(生)(等)(待)(他)(们)(出)(来)(之)(际)(,洗)(浴)(中)(心)(老)(板)(一)(副)(见)(怪)(不)(怪)(的)(样)(子)(:“来)(的)(大)(学)(生)(多)(了)(,我)(们)(也)(管)(不)(过)(来)(。谁)(好)(意)(思)(查)(人)(家)(的)(结)(婚)(证)(?再)(说)(证)(件)(也)(有)(假)(的)(。”  近)(年)(来)(,个)(别)(大)(学)(生)(同)(居)(“过)(小)(日)(子)(”已)(成)(不)(争)(的)(事)(实)(。在)(一)(些)(高)(校)(受)(过)(处)(分)(的)(学)(生)(中)(,原)(因)(属)(“同)(居)(”或)(“发)(生)(性)(关)(系)(”的)(并)(不)(罕)(见)(。记)(者)(所)(熟)(知)(的)(京)(郊)(某)(高)(校)(附)(近)(的)(农)(民)(房)(,多)(数)(被)(在)(校)(大)(学)(生)(租)(赁)(,个)(别)(男)(女)(大)(学)(生)(干)(脆)(悄)(悄)(做)(起)(了)(“小)(夫)(妻)(”。  大)(学)(生)(同)(居)(现)(象)(并)(非)(北)(京)(独)(有)(。在)(西)(部)(某)(城)(南)(郊)(的)(文)(化)(城)(,大)(专)(院)(校)(鳞)(次)(栉)(比)(,附)(近)(居)(民)(房)(屋)(颇)(多)(,在)(这)(里)(租)(住)(的)(98%以)(上)(都)(是)(大)(学)(生)(“小)(夫)(妻)(”,村)(民)(都)(习)(惯)(地)(叫)(这)(些)(村)(为)(“大)(学)(生)(夫)(妻)(部)(落)(”,他)(们)(则)(笑)(称)(自)(己)(的)(“同)(居)(生)(活)(”为)(“互)(助)(组)(”。  据)(报)(道)(,广)(州)(地)(区)(8所)(高)(校)(包)(括)(暨)(大)(、中)(大)(、华)(工)(、华)(师)(、广)(工)(、广)(商)(、华)(建)(西)(院)(、广)(州)(大)(学)(有)(关)(“婚)(前)(性)(行)(为)(”的)(调)(查)(统)(计)(表)(明)(,1136名)(接)(受)(调)(查)(者)(中)(,14.1%有)(过)(性)(经)(历)(;浙)(江)(大)(学)(也)(曾)(对)(319名)(大)(学)(生)(作)(过)(调)(查)(,统)(计)(表)(明)(平)(时)(有)(性)(冲)(动)(的)(占)(87%,其)(中)(男)(生)(为)(96.31%,女)(生)(占)(68.7%。此)(外)(,发)(生)(过)(边)(缘)(性)(行)(为)((包)(括)(接)(吻)(、拥)(抱)(、抚)(弄)(性)(器)(官)()的)(更)(是)(占)(相)(当)(大)(的)(比)(例)(,几)(乎)(与)(谈)(恋)(爱)(所)(占)(的)(比)(例)(相)(等)(。有)(关)(专)(家)(认)(为)(,在)(这)(一)(广)(阔)(的)(背)(景)(下)(,同)(居)(只)(是)(露)(出)(的)(“冰)(山)(一)(角)(”。  观)(念)(:大)(学)(生)(对)(同)(居)(各)(有)(说)(法)(  《羊)(城)(晚)(报)(》9月)(5日)(报)(道)(称)(,某)(高)(校)(对)(98级)(20名)(男)(女)(大)(学)(生)(同)(居)(现)(象)(的)(调)(查)(显)(示)(,12人)(认)(为)(“同)(居)(是)(个)(人)(的)(权)(利)(,不)(存)(在)(什)(么)(对)(错)(”;10人)(认)(为)(很)(新)(潮)(,能)(接)(受)(;6人)(承)(认)(自)(己)(已)(加)(入)(“同)(居)(”行)(列)(;5人)(不)(赞)(成)(“同)(居)(”,认)(为)(很)(难)(接)(受)(。应)(该)(说)(,人)(们)(、尤)(其)(是)(同)(龄)(人)(对)(同)(居)(的)(宽)(容)(度)(较)(前)(些)(年)(已)(有)(较)(大)(增)(加)(。  记)(者)(在)(北)(京)(部)(分)(高)(校)(采)(访)(获)(悉)(,绝)(大)(多)(数)(大)(学)(生)(仍)(对)(同)(居)(持)(反)(对)(态)(度)(。在)(人)(民)(大)(学)(,法)(律)(系)(一)(名)(女)(生)(连)(连)(摇)(头)(:绝)(不)(赞)(成)(未)(婚)(同)(居)(,这)(有)(悖)(中)(国)(传)(统)(的)(伦)(理)(道)(德)(。男)(生)(小)(马)(表)(示)(,“大)(学)(期)(间)(不)(会)(同)(居)(”,作)(为)(一)(个)(学)(生)(,同)(居)(或)(多)(或)(少)(会)(对)(学)(业)(有)(影)(响)(,同)(居)(是)(要)(负)(责)(任)(的)(,更)(涉)(及)(到)(伦)(理)(、法)(律)(等)(问)(题)(。  不)(过)(,也)(有)(大)(学)(生)(对)(同)(居)(持)(赞)(成)(观)(点)(。一)(名)(男)(生)(说)(:现)(在)(是)(什)(么)(年)(代)(了)(,还)(那)(么)(保)(守)(?想)(当)(年)(我)(国)(某)(报)(刊)(出)(第)(一)(幅)(裸)(体)(照)(,第)(一)(次)(裸)(画)(公)(开)(展)(出)(时)(也)(大)(惊)(小)(怪)(的)(,如)(今)(我)(们)(说)(它)(们)(是)(艺)(术)(。在)(我)(看)(来)(,性)(压)(抑)(下)(的)(婚)(前)(性)(行)(为)(更)(可)(怕)(,所)(以)(我)(认)(为)(与)(其)(压)(抑)(,不)(如)(正)(视)(生)(理)(或)(心)(理)(上)(的)(需)(要)(,即)(使)(在)(婚)(前)(,适)(度)(的)(性)(也)(是)(有)(好)(处)(的)(。两)(人)(同)(居)(,能)(互)(相)(帮)(助)(、互)(相)(照)(顾)(,辛)(苦)(之)(余)(也)(有)(幸)(福)(感)(和)(“家)(”的)(温)(馨)(感)(。  有)(的)(大)(学)(生)(认)(为)(,同)(居)(是)(一)(个)(很)(复)(杂)(的)(社)(会)(问)(题)(,但)(前)(提)(必)(须)(是)(两)(人)(的)(感)(情)(已)(发)(展)(到)(可)(谈)(婚)(论)(嫁)(的)(地)(步)(,总)(之)(是)(必)(须)(考)(虑)(终)(身)(的)(。“如)(果)(真)(的)(彼)(此)(认)(准)(了)(,同)(居)(未)(尝)(不)(可)(。”记)(者)(采)(访)(中)(获)(悉)(,在)(北)(京)(高)(校)(对)(同)(居)(持)(赞)(成)(观)(点)(的)(大)(学)(生)(只)(占)(很)(小)(的)(比)(例)(。  思)(考)(之)(一)(:高)(考)(取)(消)(年)(龄)(限)(制)(是)(否)(增)(加)(管)(理)(难)(度)(  今)(年)(4月)(,教)(育)(部)(就)(普)(通)(高)(等)(学)(校)(招)(生)(作)(出)(规)(定)(,对)(报)(名)(者)(条)(件)(进)(一)(步)(放)(宽)(,如)(取)(消)(“未)(婚)(,年)(龄)(一)(般)(不)(超)(过)(25周)(岁)(”的)(限)(制)(。  这)(一)(规)(定)(出)(台)(后)(,今)(年)(全)(国)(有)(15000名)(25岁)(以)(上)(的)(大)(龄)(考)(生)(走)(进)(了)(秋)(季)(的)(高)(考)(考)(场)(。有)(关)(人)(士)(分)(析)(,大)(学)(生)(同)(居)(,也)(给)(高)(考)(取)(消)(年)(龄)(限)(制)(带)(来)(挑)(战)(。  据)(悉)(,1977年)(恢)(复)(高)(考)(制)(度)(的)(时)(候)(,那)(时)(参)(加)(考)(试)(的)(人)(大)(都)(是)(文)(化)(大)(革)(命)(中)(被)(耽)(误)(的)(一)(些)(青)(年)(,因)(此)(有)(些)(考)(生)(年)(龄)(比)(较)(大)(,有)(的)(也)(带)(了)(孩)(子)(,使)(事)(实)(上)(的)(大)(学)(生)(合)(法)(同)(居)(成)(为)(必)(然)(。可)(以)(预)(见)(,取)(消)(年)(龄)(限)(制)(后)(的)(部)(分)(大)(龄)(大)(学)(生)(很)(可)(能)(在)(校)(外)(正)(常)(地)(过)(着)(夫)(妻)(同)(居)(生)(活)(。此)(外)(,能)(否)(限)(制)(一)(些)(有)(社)(会)(工)(作)(经)(历)(的)(未)(婚)(大)(学)(生)(的)(同)(居)(,将)(较)(目)(前)(更)(加)(困)(难)(。  思)(考)(之)(二)(:高)(校)(管)(理)(者)(该)(如)(何)(应)(对)(  对)(于)(目)(前)(30岁)(以)(上)(的)(大)(学)(毕)(业)(生)(来)(说)(,“大)(学)(生)(同)(居)(”还)(是)(一)(个)(新)(概)(念)(。现)(任)(石)(油)(大)(学)((北)(京)()党)(委)(副)(书)(记)(的)(蒋)(庆)(哲)(博)(士)(16岁)(上)(大)(学)(,“那)(时)(就)(只)(知)(道)(玩)(儿)(命)(学)(习)(,谈)(恋)(爱)(的)(同)(学)(少)(,很)(少)(有)(人)(谈)(及)(同)(居)(。”  据)(了)(解)(,现)(在)(,高)(校)(对)(大)(学)(生)(同)(居)(的)(态)(度)(仍)(然)(是)(“不)(准)(”。学)(生)(守)(则)(明)(确)(规)(定)(:学)(生)(公)(寓)(不)(准)(留)(宿)(异)(性)(,更)(不)(用)(说)(准)(许)(同)(居)(了)(。  然)(而)(,高)(校)(校)(园)(不)(可)(能)(像)(过)(去)(一)(样)(完)(全)(承)(担)(所)(有)(学)(生)(的)(住)(宿)(需)(求)(,作)(为)(后)(勤)(改)(革)(的)(方)(向)(,住)(宿)(交)(给)(社)(会)(乃)(大)(势)(所)(趋)(。记)(者)(在)(采)(访)(中)(获)(悉)(,在)(北)(京)(部)(分)(高)(校)(,大)(学)(生)(只)(要)(向)(学)(院)(或)(系)(提)(出)(申)(请)(,经)(学)(生)(管)(理)(部)(门)(同)(意)(,履)(行)(审)(查)(登)(记)(手)(续)(,就)(可)(以)(搬)(出)(学)(校)(宿)(舍)(。京)(郊)(一)(所)(高)(校)(的)(学)(生)(处)(长)(说)(,学)(校)(已)(有)(个)(别)(学)(生)(征)(得)(系)(、学)(生)(处)(、家)(长)(同)(意)(,租)(住)(校)(外)(房)(屋)(。这)(些)(人)(部)(分)(要)(应)(对)(考)(研)(,找)(个)(安)(静)(的)(地)(方)(复)(习)(;有)(的)(则)(是)(不)(习)(惯)(宿)(舍)(集)(体)(生)(活)(。但)(据)(记)(者)(了)(解)(,确)(有)(大)(学)(生)(租)(房)(是)(为)(了)(“谈)(恋)(爱)(方)(便)(”。大)(学)(生)(一)(旦)(搬)(出)(校)(园)(,就)(意)(味)(着)(离)(开)(了)(学)(校)(的)(监)(控)(视)(线)(,少)(数)(男)(女)(大)(学)(生)(便)(走)(向)(了)(同)(居)(。该)(校)(最)(近)(处)(分)(了)(两)(名)(学)(生)(——女)(生)(先)(离)(开)(校)(园)(租)(房)(,和)(她)(处)(于)(热)(恋)(中)(的)(男)(生)(随)(即)(搬)(了)(进)(去)(,成)(了)(“同)(居)(一)(族)(”。  事)(实)(上)(,高)(校)(后)(勤)(社)(会)(化)(已)(不)(可)(逆)(转)(。怎)(样)(在)(这)(一)(背)(景)(下)(对)(大)(学)(生)(教)(育)(管)(理)(也)(是)(高)(校)(面)(临)(的)(新)(课)(题)(。多)(年)(从)(事)(学)(生)(管)(理)(工)(作)(的)(蒋)(庆)(哲)(博)(士)(认)(为)(,这)(一)(现)(象)(理)(论)(上)(值)(得)(探)(讨)(,“大)(学)(生)(同)(居)(学)(校)(不)(能)(提)(倡)(。但)(问)(题)(是)(,不)(提)(倡)(不)(等)(于)(能)(硬)(性)(杜)(绝)(。管)(理)(者)(应)(该)(在)(新)(形)(势)(下)(重)(新)(审)(视)(这)(一)(问)(题)(,让)(更)(多)(的)(大)(学)(生)(能)(够)(走)(出)(同)(居)(误)(区)(。”  (晨)(报)(记)(者)(廖)(厚)(才)()神)(州)(行)(超)(大)(惊)(喜)(:搜)(狐)(短)(信)(为)(神)(州)(行)(手)(机)(用)(户)(开)(通)(搜)(狐)(短)(信)(服)(务)(天)(大)(地)(大)(看)(“十)(大)(”!2001年)(度)(搜)(狐)(十)(大)(新)(闻)(评)(选)(震)(撼)(登)(场)(!无)(限)(精)(彩)(无)(限)(情)(:搜)(狐)(短)(信)(各)(品)(牌)(手)(机)(图)(片)(铃)(声)(传)(真)(情)(我)(来)(说)(两)(句)(推)(荐)(给)(我)(的)(朋)(友)((短)(信)(或)(Email)相)(关)(专)(题)(:社)(会)(走)(笔)(相)(关)(新)(闻)(:携)(笔)(从)(戎)(不)(亦)(快)(哉)(广)(东)(八)(所)(高)(校)(大)(学)(生)(争)("当)(兵)("(12/0411:41)优)(化)(基)(层)(干)(部)(队)(伍)(河)(北)(怀)(来)(选)(派)(大)(学)(生)(当)(村)(官)((12/0411:19)中)(国)(名)(校)(大)(学)(生)(辩)(论)(赛)(开)(辩)((12/0411:19)少)(年)(大)(学)(生)(的)(思)(考)((12/0410:57)名)(校)(大)(学)(生)(辩)(论)(开)(赛)((12/0410:53)徘)(徊)(在)(欲)(望)(与)(痛)(苦)(之)(间)(---透)(视)(大)(学)(生)("同)(居)("现)(象)((12/0410:38)徘)(徊)(在)(法)(律)(和)(道)(德)(的)(边)(缘)(大)(学)(生)(何)(时)(走)(出)(同)(居)(误)(区)((12/0409:43)中)(国)(首)(次)(在)(高)(校)(在)(读)(大)(学)(生)(中)(征)(集)(义)(务)(兵)((12/0319:10)?--给)(编)(辑)(写)(信)()!

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